Tuesday, 8 October 2013

How We Joined Together

My Marriage Sequence

Aug 19,2012

Got up by 6 o clock and ready for the occasion,so curious waiting to see Mr.Tamilarasan.Have 2 sisters but that day no one is in home.My sister in law came by 9 o clock so that i got a company to reduce my nervousness.Finally Tamil came with his family and some of his relation by 11 o clock.Me and my dad welcomed them.Gave snacks,tea,coffee,milk for Tamil.Now the time for chatting for me and Tamil.I am so nervous.We two sat in dinning room,no one is with me ,don`t know what to talk ,Tamil with smiling face started to talk  and his eye contact made me to see others in nearby room.As though its a questionnaire,I was just answering those question.All are satisfied ,ready to set the date of engagement and wedding ,but Tamil had confusion with the exam dates of mine and his projects.So they stopped the date fixing and planned for going to Tamil`s home the next day.After the lunch we all waited for the arrival of brother Saravanan  and Uncle kittuchamy.After seeing them Tamil`s family left my home.Evening mom and dad invited relatives for going to Tamil`s home,Pollachi.

Aug 20,2012

All the expected relations came,except me all are going to Pollachi.Got a news that Mr.Tamil was expecting me there.His home is far away from Pollachi.So it took half a day to go there.Sister`s kids enjoyed in Tamil`s home.With the help of aunty kalyani,Tamil got my mobile number,but there was a rumor we two should not speak till our marriage.Engagement date was fixed on Jan 25, 2013 and wedding date was on Feb 20, 2013.

Aug 21,2012

Morning by 9 o clock got a call from Tamil ,that he wants my foto to show to his grandma.After that by 8 pm Tamil called me on his way to Chennai.From that time onwards full of chat till now.

Oct 1,2012

For the first time we planned for a outing(secret) ,only in Coimbatore.After Aug 19,we two met each other at Sri Krishna Collection,RS Puram,Coimbatore.Then we had lunch at Alankar Grande,Gandhipuram.

Nov 14,2012

Our second outing to Malampuzha dam, Palghat.Had great time,enjoyed the trip. 

Dec 25,2012

Third outing to kovai kondattam.We didn`t play over there   ,just chatted till afternoon.

Jan 25,2013 

Engagement- Most of the relatives came home by Jan 24 th,we all had great time,preparing things for engagement.On 25 th got up by 4 o clock,ready for the function and waited for Tamil`s arrival.By 7 o clock Tamil and his family came, function started,all procedures over.After breakfast all went to take dresses for wedding ceremony,at RMKV,Coimbatore.

Feb 19 & 20, 2013

Muhurtham by 7 o clock.

Wedding -My friends priyanka,shanthi,sathukutty,zafy,tamil akka,ramesh,harris,mano,parthas,kaleel,ameera,kayu and her mom came.Joined our hands forever:-).